COLOURED LOVE PART 1
RED LOVE ❤ - GREEN LOVE 💚 - VIOLET LOVE 💜
Everything starts and ends with SELF, naturally. Unless it is self-directed, it is not naturally justified.
The sense of SELF at any moment is defined as the SENSE OF GROWTH one attains at that specific moment. The growth happens in two ways, physically and cognitively. Physical growth is finite and the cognitive growth is infinite. Physical growth means the growth of physical existence and its connections. Cognitive growth means the growth or expansion of cognitive capabilities.
Now on the topic, we may raise questions on WHY to put a color to the love - Love is just love? But the rationality of the actions differs in the execution of love at different stages.
Let's understand what the mental states that we experience with a sense of love, in general. Let’s start with the understanding of what love is, in the first place?
The actual sense of love can be sensed if and only if the individual can connect herself/himself, mentally (cognitively) to another individual. Because the physical connection is finite. Homo sapiens get satiated with a sense of possibility and infinity.
Love gives an openness, an acceptance, a possibility of furthering the observation (vis a vis cognition).
It gives an EXPANSION to the cognitive capability of the individual when exercised consciously.
Love is an exercise of all cognitive faculties which gives an expansion to the sense of self.
Cognitive faculties are viz. Perceiving, Pursuing, Paying Attention, Observing, Remembering, Processing, Analysing, Reasoning, Understanding etc.
With the exercise of cognitive faculties, cognitive capabilities expand.
That’s how the individual realises the expansion of SELF with love.
Now rationally, Love can be of two forms:
One is NEUTRAL ACCEPTANCE of the RIGHTS TO CO-EXIST of anything and everything on this planet and in nature! The speed of this type of love is neutral for all.
The other Form is the ASSOCIATION which is forming an association with the individual form of existence. The association can be of two types.
The first is the physical association where physical connection plays a vital role in love. e.g. Love between blood relations like mother-son, father-son, sister-brother, mother-daughter, father-daughter etc. and the love you feel towards whom you are physically attracted. This type of love, rationally, is associated with a longer span of physical co-existence to capitalize the association. The speed of this type of love needs to be slow to retain longer physical co-existence.
The other is the cognitive association where identification of cognitive skills or characteristic-traits plays a vital role in love. e.g. loving a writer, loving a leader, loving a friend due to some specifically identified characteristic-traits. This type of love does not need longer physical co-existence. The speed of this type of love is higher as it exists irrespective of physical co-existence.
RATIONALES OF COLORS
We have 7 perceivable colors: V-I-B-G-Y-O-R. Based on their wavelengths and frequencies that are perceived by us in different exposures. Frequency means the speed of that particular color. Violet is the highest frequency whereas the Red is the least in frequency. Green being the neutral, the average frequency in all the colors.
Violet: 380–450 nm (688–789 THz frequency)
Green: 495–570 nm. (540-580 THz frequency)
Red: 620–750 nm (400–484 THz frequency)
[1 nm or nanometer is equal to 10-9m or meter
1 TeraHertz (THz) is equal to 1012 Hertz (Hz)
1 Hertz is equal to one cycle per second]
The love which is neutral and ACCEPTANCE is the core characteristic is GREEN LOVE. For an individual, the GREEN LOVE is a necessary understanding in terms of her/his vitality conservation and overall wellness. One needs to UNDERSTAND that accepting the RIGHTS TO EXIST of all phenomena, including all physical or behavioural entities keeps the individual in a state of conserved vitality. Otherwise, there is no end of agitation one would feel if s/he allows the external phenomena to affect her/his cognitive neutrality.
Example of Green love:
Love to the person who you don’t know well or at all. Green love can even be towards a heinous criminal. This love is based on UNDERSTANDING THE RIGHTS TO EXIST for all, not on the justification of the action or traits.
It means Green love will strive to understand without any discrimination of the traits in the individual. The traits are not necessarily justifiable. UNDERSTANDING does not need justification or underestimation of anything. It is a neutral execution of cognition or mental faculties.
The love with ASSOCIATION as the core characteristics will be either for a Violet love or a Red love.
A. VIOLET LOVE is not dependent upon the physical coexistence but on the keen observation and experience of characteristic-trait(s) of the individual with whom one wishes to associate. This is a specific trait-based association. Unless there is some specific trait(s) of anyone that is rationally assimilable, violet love cannot occur for an individual.
Example of VIOLET LOVE: Love towards a person whose specific trait(s) you know well. Violet love is always towards a trait or traits which you find justifiable. This love is based on the keen cognitive exercise and the rational justification, at an individual level. There could be many non-relatable characteristic-traits in the person who you love cognitively due to some identified relatable traits. The KEEN OBSERVATION of relatable (justifiable) traits is strong enough to overcome the limitation of non-relatable traits.
e.g. loving a writer, loving a leader, loving a friend due to some specifically identified characteristic-traits.
You may love the writing skills of your beloved writer but may not be able to relate with his arrogance. Even though you find yourself cognitively associated with him. It means your observed relatable trait is stronger to overcome the non-relatable traits of the person you love.
RED LOVE needs a physical coexistence/connection. It occurs due to some physical traits and/or connection that an individual identifies in the person.
Example of RED LOVE: Love towards a person with a physical connection (Parents, Children or relatives) and attraction (a person who you find physically attractive).
These connections could be with blood-related people or with the exclusive person(s) with whom you choose (or wish) to be involved in a physical relation due to physical attractions.
e.g. Love between blood relations like mother-son, father-son, sister-brother, mother-daughter, father-daughter etc. and the love you feel towards whom you are physically attracted to.
Footnote:
Green, Violet and Red loveS need mergers for improvement of vitality conservation and improvement of relations, both.